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Saturday, December 27th, 2008
7:34 pm
[mistress2004]
A story...the fantasy

So this is my first attempt at a story....let me know what you think:


There was a light knock on my apartment door.  I was nervous, I knew it was Greg, over the past 7 months he had come to my home many times.  I had lost count of the times we had slept together, yet I still got butterflies whenever he was near.  Tonight was my night to do something different with him.  It was New Years eve, a night I used to dread as the anniversary of a break-up, but tonight it would be wonderful, and exciting.
 
Greg was the love of my life and in a perpetual state of confusion.  I was the only woman he had slept with a enjoyed it, I was also the only person he had slept with that left him without guilt.  He was 22 and full of conflicts: top or bottom, boys or girls, dom or sub?  So it was my hope to bring him pleasure and let him see that he could enjoy all the world had to offer, tonight we would role-play...tonight he would be my slave.
 
I opened the door clad in lacy pink panties that were sparsly covered in glitter, the ones I had woren on an early date, that left small remembrances of me for weeks.  I wore one other piece of clothing, a shear black lingerie robe that went to the beginnings of my black three inch high heels.
 
When he walked in I was shaking on the inside, he was as handsome as ever.  Short brown hair that would suit no other man, but him.  A strong jaw line with the most amazing smile, only one of his front teeth appeared in the slightest to be flawed, yet its what made his smile so sexy.  Then there were his eyes, they were somewhere between a pale blue and silver that squinted tight when he smiled or laughed too hard.  His eyebrows were perfectly place above them with endless expression, enough to make anyone swoon at the first twitch.
 
Once inside he seemed startled by my attire, and unsure of what I had planned.  This was not obviously the scene he expected to find when he came over tonight.  There was a glemnse of intrigue in his eyes and I knew I had him hooked.  I reminded him of a comment I had made, "When we are at you place you are in charge,but when we are at mine, I am."  I said this with a confident smirk and he understood right away what my mind was set on.
 
I waited for him to protest or fall into line with the game, if he protested that just made my challenge greater, but if not the fun would begin.  He asked me, "So how do you envision this going?"  My reply was simple, "Tonight, you will be MY slave and you will do exactly as you are told, the same safe words apply as from the other night."
 
I few nights prior to this my fantasy came true when he had tied me to his bed for an amazing night of torture and passion, definitely a top 5 night!
 
"First slave you will strip."
 
I watched as he did as instructed, almost taking on a different persona as he did.  I loved the man for who he was, but his body was amazing site.  I often teased that he had bigger breast than mine, but it was true.   He was not significantly tall, but somewhere around 5'9", but he was well proportioned and defiantly lickable.  His shoulders were broad and strong, easily the sexiest part of him.  They of course led to sculpted, but not to obviously perfect, arms.  His chest was, I'm sure, the envy of many of the men he had taken home or teasingly been shirtless around, complete with the two highly sensitive and delightedly suckable nipples.  His stomach was not the traditional six-pack, but it was flat and perfectly in-tune with the rest of his torso, which carried the most perfect amount of brown hair.   Where his torso met his legs was the most erotic part of his body.  Perfectly chiseled out of whatever god had created him from, this area was my  favorite, soft and tender to the touch, that made a perfect V to my favorite organ.  I have been said to have a phallic obsession, but not being modest, his was the most succulent thing I had ever had the pleasure to put my mouth on.  His legs of course, were the source of his amazing thrusting abilities, and should not be forgotten.
 
Forgetting myself briefly while I basqued in his exquistly intimidating presecence I quickly pulled myself together.  If he realized how weak just looking at him made me, this was never going to work.
 
"Good slave, but you still have your socks on"
 
He quickly removed them.
 
"Good, but not good enough, you must be punished for not doing as you were told in your first task"
 
I walked around him, picked up his belt, which was still looped in his jeans, and freed it in one fale swoop.  I walked back around him, with his belt folded in two in my hands I gave it a snap so that the leather hit against itself.
 
I let my left hand lightly trace across his abdomen until I was standing to his left side.  I braced my left hand against him and turned to give his backside a smack with the belt.
 
"I hope for your next task you do not disappoint me, or the punishment will be much more severe"
 
His reply was short and simple "I will do better"
 
Enjoying the fun I was going to have with this...I shook my finger at him and said:
 
"tsk tsk tsk, I will do better what?"
 
SMACK with the belt again, leaving the slightest bit of pink of his god like ass.
 
"I will do better, Mistress"
 
I smiled at this, realizing I was going to have power over him for one night, although he might punish me for it later.  I knew the power was not real, because he could overtake me in a matter of seconds.
 
"Good boy, come with me."
 
I walked him passed my couch and had him kneel in front of a large round chair I had in my living room.
 
Then while standing in front of him, his head coming to about my waist...he received his next task.
 
"Remove my panties and then put your hands behind your back"
 
With a smirk he reached up and gently pulled down my panties purposefully letting his large hands rub down my outer thighs.  Once they were on the ground and he placed his hands behind his back, I walked behind him and put his wrists into handcuffs.  I then walked back around in front of him.
 
"Kiss candy mountian, slave" This of course being our inside joke, candy mountain and the cave of wonders were the respect names of my mysteries, and his cock was named Charlie.  Greg kissed it once, and I pulled his head away before he could get too creative or exploratory.
 
I sat in the round chair I had positioned him in front of, my legs spread wide apart.
 
"move in between my legs and close to the chair slave."
 
When he did this I put a leg on each of his shoulders, still wearing the black high heels.
 
"Do you want to please me?"
 
"Yes mistress"
 
"Then I want you to excite me, prove to me you are worth having. Lick"
 
Greg leaned forward to begin his challenge.  He knew my body well and could easy get me off in a matter of seconds with just his hands, but he rarely went down on me and never with just his mouth.
 
He started slowly, I am a woman who likes to be teased, afterall.  He licked the the outter folds, which were freshly shaved and I shuddered at the touch.  I was already horny as hell and practically dripping from just seeing him naked, but I wanted him to pleasure me.  I think he knew that this part could be easy for him, but he took his time.  He licked, nibbled, and sucked in all the right places, save the one that would send me into extacsy, and he knew it.  When he finally started to get near my clit, he would do so ever-so-slightly and gently, it was pure torture.  I knew he had to have that wicked grin I loved so much on his face.  Not being able to stand anymore, I pushed his head back and pushed him faced down on the floor.  I put my right foot on his back, just enough to leave a tiny heel  imprint when I removed it.  I grabbed his belt again and SMACK, right on his perfect little ass.
 
I pulled him back to his knees.
 
"You are my slave and here for my pleasure, do not tease me, you will lightly lick my clit and when I say you will go harder and do as instructed!"
 
"Yes, mistress"
 
I was back in the chair again and I motioned for him to resume.  This time he went straight for the sweetspot and nearly sent me over the edge.
 
"Soft slave!"
 
I could feel the blood rushing from every part of my body to that one spot and I was craving his warm hard cock to fuck me, but I didn't want to rush into that yet.
 
"Now bite"
 
He bit.
 
"Bite harder"
 
He bit into my clit and pressed into it with such force I felt all my juices rush inside me and the pulsating orgasim began.  I grabbed his head, and pushed on it a little, I shrieked, desperately not trying to say his name, that would give him too much power.
 
"stop!"
 
He didn't stop.
 
"Stop NOW slave!"
 
He still didn't stop and I had to push his head away, he had a devious pleased look on his face.
 
"Bad boy, you must be punished for such disobediance."
 
"Yes mistress, I must"
 
I stood up and pulled him to his feet.
 
"Come with me"
 
We walked into my bedroom, I positioned him facing the left side of my bed.
 
"Bend over"
 
When he bent over I forciably push his head down on the bed so his ass was exposed and begging to be spanked.  I ran my fingertips along the round sexy cheeks.  I pulled out my paddle out of my nightstand and laid the cool material on his cheeks.  Then I pulled away and gave it a medium strength spank.  This was followed by two hard wacks, and then a few gentle pats.  His flesh was nice and pink and I bent to blow on the area of my punishment and run my nails across it tenderly, before kissing each spot.
 
"Will you be good now?"
 
"Yes, mistress" he said in a panting voice.
 
I freed him from the handcuffs and stood him up.  I kissed his mouth and handed him a condom and some astroglide.  He looked confused.
 
"I want want you to fuck me in the ass."
 
I turned around and positioned myslef in front of him and bent at a 90 degree angle with the bed.  On the bed was my favorite vibrator.  It was pink, with a clitorial stimulator and 10 speeds of pleasure.
 
"Put the condom on slave and get ready to please me"
 
"Yes mistress"
 
I heard the condom package open and the sound of it being unrolled.  It had been so long since I had received anal, I was nervous.  I had never experienced this with Greg, and I was shaking, but eager.
 
I felt a hand on my left hip and felt his fingers on my clit.  They moved up to my slit and fingered me for a couple thrusts, which felt amazing, but not what I wanted, and he knew that.  He pulled out the wet fingers and started to trace around my tight orafice.  He pressed a finger just inside which caused me to whimper, I knew this was giving him power, but I didn't care, i wanted this.   He moved one finger in and out of my tight ass until it was loose enough for a second finger, and he slipped one in.  It hurt, but I needed it and pushed back against his hand.  I had prepared for this, I hadn't eaten in over 24 hours and I was as slick as a whistle.  He slipped his fingers out and I heard he rub astroglide over his latex wrapped cock.
 
To help relax I turned on my vibrator to its lowest speed and held it to my clit.  I was instantaneously ready for whatever he would do.  Without a word I felt the head press into my hole, which had grown tight again.  I felt a quick bolt of pain and I began to pant.
 
"Slowly slave"
 
He slowly pushed in and my body adjusted to his member's size.  Once he was fully inside....I stopped him.
 
"Wait, let me get used to this."
 
He never said a word.  He now had both hands on my hips ready to begin thrusting at my command.  I wasn't sure how he felt about this, but I was going to enjoy each moment.  I slide my vibrator inside me so that I was filled to the hilt in my both my holes.
 
"Ok, start with slow deep thrusts."
 
He began first pulling out almost completely, I whimpered again, then he went in deeper than before.  After a couple more thrusts like that I was ready, I wanted to be taken hard.
 
"That's good slave, now fuck the hell out of me!"
 
"Yes, my mistress"
 
The thrusts became fast and hard, I was loving it and panting like crazy.  I still had my vibrator on low, but I kicked it into high gear and I was afraid my knees were going to give out from the sensations.
 
"Harder!"
 
"HARDER!"
 
I knew he was able to feel the vibrations through that thin wall that seperated my two pleasureable caves.  I could feel that this was more intense than either one of us could baragin for.   The blood of my entire body was once again all in one spot, but this time the full filling ensured an electrifying orgasim.  The blood flowed and the pulsating started.  My entire pelvic region quivered and jerked and in pleasureable pain.
 
"STOP!!!...OH GOD STOP!"
 
Instead of completely stopping he slowed and then stopped inside me.  I reached underneath me and turned off the vibrator.  I was throbbing and dripping and I didn't want to move.  Greg had started to rest on my back now, obviously tired.  I tried to recover myself and I pulled out the vibrator.
 
"Ok slave, you can pull out slowly."
 
As he did I whinced in pain.  I stood up and turned to Greg.  I kissed him and while I did I removed the condom.
 
"You did good slave, I am pleased. Now lay down on the bed and I will be right back."
 
I went to the bathroom, tossed the condom, grabbed a washcloth, and washed my toy.
 
I returned to the room and threw the washcloth at Greg.
 
"Get yourself clean for me slave."
 
While he washed himself with the cloth I took my four velcrow restraints and tied them to the four corners of the bed.
 
"Are you done?"
 
"Only if you find me clean enough, Mistress?"
 
I looked him over and nodded yes.
 
"Lay back spread eagle."
 
I put the cuffs on his wrists and ankles.
 
"Now my little slave, I know you think you can easily escape this restraints, but you won't will you?"
 
"No Mistress"
 
I put my blindfold on him and then brought out some new toys.
 
First was a bag of clothes pins.  I clamped one on each of his nipples, which resulted in a wince from him.  I put a series of pins on his balls and four up the underside of his shaft.  With each new one there was an arousing growl.  I took pleasure in placing a few pinching that sensitve V of his.  watching him flinch at such touches took a lot of personal restraint not to just jump him.  He looked so sexy nakid, spread-eagled, blindfolded, and horny on my bed.  There is just something to be said for a man being tied down.
 
I kissed his mouth very lightly and then a little harder, biting on his lower lip.  I moved my kisses to his neck and bit hard leaving a nice mark.   I continued to kiss around his neck and mouth, then I removed the two pins from the tight grasp they had on his tender nipples.  I lightly kissed each one and started sucking and biting them.  Paying a great deal of attention to each.  With each moan and hiss he made I became hornier and wetter.
 
He was being so good and remained quiet.  I took out my massage oil and let it drip down between his pecks, it was cold.  At its touch he hissed and arched his back.
 
"slave, it will warm up and you like it, say you like it."
 
"I like it Mistress."
 
I rubbed down his torso with the oil and rubbed his legs, but ignored the sensitive area where the clothes pins remained.
 
I pulled out a condom from my nightstand along with the astroglide and a latex glove.  I put the condom on my vibrator and put the glove on my hand. I slicked my gloved hand up with astroglide and started rub just below his balls.
 
"Now, slave, this will be enjoyable and I do not care whether you are clean enough or not, just take it."
 
As I pressed the first finger inside I started to pull off the clothes pins from his cock and balls.  Soon I was fingering his ass with three fingers and sucking his sensitive cock.  I left the pins pinching the V while I sucked his dick and squeezed his balls.  Then I switched out my fingers for the vibrator.  I pushed it in slowly, but with delibarate force.  Once fully inside I turned it on low.  The vibrations made him jump a little.  The clitorial stimulator was massaging the area between his anus and his balls.  I was sucking vigorously while I pulled the vibrator in and out, in and out.  Slowly at first and then with speed to match my sucking.
 
"slave, tell me does this feel good?"
 
"uh-huh."
 
I stopped....
 
"No slave, that was not a good enough answer....if you want me to continue you must tell me you love it and beg for me to continue."
 
"Yes, Mistress, I love it.  Please don't stop....please.."
 
I continued with thrusting the toy and licking his throbbing cock.  I pulled off the clothes pins still pinching that over-so sensitive V.  Then i moved my mouth from licking his cock to wear those pins had been.  He let out a growl that made me not want to keep patient.  I stopped thrusting the vibrator, but pushed it in as far as it would go and I straddled my bound slave's pelvis.  I positioned his rock hard member inside of my dripping slit.  It felt so warm and pleasurable to have him finally inside.  I never realized how trying to tease and torture him I was doing the same to myself.
 
I was going slowly back and forth and I leaned forward to kiss him hard.  I bit his lips and neck...I hadn't felt this thrilled and horny in my entire life.  I sat back up and continued my grinding against his sweaty pelvis.  It was so slippery from my juices and his sweat that he nearly slipped out from my eagerness to move faster and harder.  I reached behind me to between his legs and increased the speed on my vibrator that was still shoved up his tight ass.  It was now at its most intense speed, I could feel the vibrations throbbing threw his penis.
 
This change effected him in ways that increased my own climb to orgasim.  I was riding him like a horse in the kentuckey derby.  His back was arching, his teeth were clenched, and his neck was turning red and hot, veins bulging.  For the first time ever I though he was going to get off from sex.  Feeling like I was finally showing him a fraction of the pleasure he gives me with one touch I started going harder.
 
With my left hand I was rubbing my clit vigourusly and I new I wouldn't last much longer.
 
"slave, are you going to cum?"
 
"I think so Mistress"
 
"Good, slave, that would please me"
 
I said that in the slightest pant.
 
I was starting to hit that crest of orgasim, I put my right had up on Greg's chest, just barely digging my nails into him.
 
"please" he said...
 
"please what?"
 
"please go harder, make me cum."
 
Such a request made me smile.  Never once has he asked this of me, or thought it was possible.
 
In my eagerness I tilted back resting my weight on my right hand, still riding him.  I took my left hand and reached between his legs and started moving the vibrator in and out enough to make him hiss.  I gave it one final thrust before I feel forward on top of him, while his back arched and he made a loud grunting growl.  I felt his seed shooting out of his cock deep inside me.
 
I could no longer stand it and ripped the velcrow cuffs free and removed the blindfold in a freenzy.  I needed to feel him encircling me.  I kissed him hard and his hand was quickly between us and he was rubbing my clit into a the fastest orgasim possible.  I collapsed with him still inside me.
 
We both laid there sweating and panting.
 
"That was the most intense sexual experience of my life, thank you...slave."
 
He smiled, eyes closed and he knew he still had the power...he always did
 

Friday, October 3rd, 2008
1:26 pm
[brat_sheba]
WW 09
In the middle of winter, when you are suffering from Cabin Fever and you just want to get out and get kinky!   Winter Wickedness is the answer to your winter blahs.  It's a two day kinkstravaganza, a fun and educational event in Central Ohio. Newbies & Experienced Kinksters of any gender or sexual orientation are welcome!  This is our second year for this great event, and we are making some huge changes  - hint...we are in a brand new location...a 3 Star hotel!!!   
 
If you have never been to an event of this type, this is the one!!  Come out to a wonderfully fun and exciting kink/BDSM event in Columbus, Ohio!  With one day of educational and stimulating BDSM/relationship classes, vendors from near and far, two nights of Play Party Fun in a dungeon filled with new and beautiful play equipment & furniture, and a comfortable social area to connect with new friends, or rekindle relationships.  

We are bringing in World Class Speakers from all over - presenting 25+ Classes from the basic to advanced: Featuring Keynote speaker - Tristan Taormino!  Presenters - Jay Wiseman, British Lucky Paul, Rita Seagrave, Joanne Gaddy, Sarah Sloane, and many, many more!  Proudly presented by Adventures In Sexuality (AIS) the people who brought you COPE!  More info is available at www.adventuresinsexuality.org

 


Current Mood: accomplished
Wednesday, September 24th, 2008
12:20 am
[goodlittlegirl]
Frolicon Update

Frolicon Update:

 

Hi everyone. Here is an update on Frolicon as well as where we will be over the next few weeks.

Chrissie

Frolicon Volunteer Director

 

Read more...Collapse )
Friday, August 15th, 2008
11:57 am
[brat_sheba]
Get Your Tickets NOW!!!!
Greetings fellow Kinksters!

It's not too late to get your Tickets for COPE - The Central Ohio Perversion Excursion!! So get your tickets and set your calendars now for Sept 12 & 13, 2008! It's Central Ohio's own two day kinkstravaganza; an adult fun and educational event in Columbus, Ohio. Newbies & Experienced Kinksters of any gender or sexual orientation are welcome! To get tickets, just go
http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE08.html - read through the rules then hit the tickets link.

Ticket prices are as follows:
For Affiliated BDSM/Leather tickets sales*
$65 - Later Tickets (Aug 1 - Sept 6)
Non - Affiliated Ticket sales
$70 - Later Tickets (Aug 1 - Sept 6)
(*Affiliated persons are members of Local/State BDSM/Kink groups and support their local communities.)

Come out to a wonderfully fun and exciting kink/BDSM event in Columbus, Ohio! We have something for almost everyone - if you have never been to an event or even if you hit every one, this is the event not to miss! We're bringing in new presenters for one day of educational and stimulating BDSM/relationship classes!

Here is the list :
Keynote speaker - Mistress Simone from Chicago
Other Speakers - Jack Rinella, GrayDancer, Leon, Kimi, Dread Pirate Brian, Amber and Lori, Padre Pugno & Madamoiselle B, Lady Justice and special guest Ms. Oregon Leather - Coral Mallow!

We will also have new and former vendors from near and far. The large and comfortable social area will be available to connect with new friends, or rekindle relationships. There will be Two full nights of Play Party Fun, filled with new and beautiful play equipment & furniture! We also have more new happenings! With the addition of the Saturday Night Sensuality Space, the friday night Surprise Meet N Greet game, a chocolate therapy area, new music, and many other changes, things are bound to be hot!

We have added another class track for the afternoon! With 5 tracks of interest, from the basic to advanced, there is bound to be something to tickle your fancy! Basic/Advanced skills, General & Sacred Sexuality, Kink philosophy/polyamory/spirituality, Misc stuff and the new
ROPE/Bondage Track!!

It's gonna be fantastic - the site is coming up slowly but surely - you can check out the info at
http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE08.html

Get ready, cause it' s almost here!!

See ya there!
Twistedly,
Barak & Brat Sheba and the AIS Staff

Current Mood: horny
Wednesday, June 4th, 2008
10:35 pm
[brat_sheba]
Proudly Announcing COPE '08

Greetings fellow Kinksters!

You've been waiting for it, and now it's time!! Tickets for COPE - The Central Ohio Perversion Excursion are on Sale NOW!! Get them while theyar e hot, and at the best price of the season. Early Ticket Pricing is only $45! But only until June 21! So get your tickets and set your
calendars now for Sept 12 & 13, 2008! It's Central Ohio's own two day kinkstravaganza; a newer adult fun and educational event in Columbus, Ohio. Newbies & Experienced Kinksters of any gender or sexual orientation are welcome! To get tickets, just go
http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE08.html - read through the rules then hit the tickets link.

Ticket prices are as follows:
For Affiliated BDSM/Leather tickets sales* 
$45 - Early Tickets (until June 21) 
$55 - Regular Tickets (June21 - Aug 1) 
$65 - Later Tickets (Aug 1 - Sept 6) 
Non - Affiliated Ticket sales 
$50 - Early Tickets (until June 21) 
$60 - Regular Tickets (June 21 - Aug 1) 
$70 - Later Tickets (Aug 1 - Sept 6) 
(*Affiliated persons are members of Local/State BDSM/Kink groups and support their local communities.)

Come out to a wonderfully fun and exciting kink/BDSM event in Columbus, Ohio! We have something for almost everyone - if you have never been to an event or even if you hit every one, this is the event not to miss!  We're bringing in new presenters for one day of educational and
stimulating BDSM/relationship classes! 

Here is the list :
Keynote speaker - Mistress Simone from Chicago
Other Speakers - Jack Rinella, GrayDancer, Uncle P (Pere), Leon, Kimi, Dread Pirate Brian, Amber and Lori, Padre Pugno &
Madamoiselle B, Lady Justice and special guest Ms. Oregon Leather - Coral Mallow! 

We will also have new and former vendors from near and far. The large and comfortable social area will be available to connect
with new friends, or rekindle relationships. There will be Two full nights of Play Party Fun, filled with new and beautiful play equipment &
furniture! We also have more new happenings! With the addition of the Saturday Night Sensuality Space, the friday night Surprise Meet N Greet game, a chocolate therapy area, new music, and many other changes, things are bound to be hot!

We have added another class track for the afternoon! With 5 tracks of interest, from the basic to advanced, there is bound to be something to tickle your fancy! Basic/Advanced skills, General & Sacred Sexuality, Kink philosophy/polyamory/spirituality, Misc stuff and the new
ROPE/Bondage Track!!

It's gonna be fantastic - the site is coming up slowly but surely - you can check out the info at
http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE08.html

Get ready, causeit' s almost here!! and there will be more info coming soon!

See ya there!
Twistedly,
Barak & Brat Sheba and the AIS Staff



Current Mood: excited
Monday, May 26th, 2008
6:23 pm
[peshpeters]
Wednesday, January 23rd, 2008
4:42 pm
[write_naked]
Thursday, January 3rd, 2008
12:14 pm
[darkestembrace]
DEVIANToronto - January Workshops and Munch
(feel free to cross-post or pass on to others)

Hello all!

I've received a few emails over the last couple days asking about details and venues, so hopefully this email will catch anything that I've neglected to put up in the past.



Our new website is up here, containing details on our workshops and monthly munch.



Beginning in January 2008, DEVIANToronto will be holding a monthly munch.Collapse )


Also beginning in January, we will be holding a monthly workshop series.Collapse )



Hope everyone had a great holidays (of whatever you celebrate) and see you all in the new year!

-Carina aka darkestembrace
Sunday, December 16th, 2007
8:11 pm
[celestialjules]
help...?
Hello everyone.. I'm new to this community and to the idea of switching. I've always considered myself a sub/slave and am in a relationship right now were I am formally submitted to a wonderful Dom whom I am falling helplessly in love with. He enjoys all aspects of the lifestyle and in the past has submitted, formally, to a Mistress. 

Recently he has started thinking about finding a Mistress to submit to because he misses that aspect of the lifestyle... he assures me that it would have no impact on our relationship and that I would not be required to submit to any Mistress he would submit to. The two relationships would be unconnected completely. I admittedly do not like this idea at all. To me this relationship is so intimate and in my mind more so for me because I am the sub.. I don't like to think of him feeling the way I feel about him about some other women. He has listened to my concerns and taken them into account and as of yet has not even started looking for a MIstress because he knows I would have a hard time with it. 

He has asked me if I woudl be willig to try to Top him... assuring me that he would still be my Dom and I would still be te sub but that he would Dom from the bottom... essentailly Topping from the bottom for a scene everyonce and a while. I must admit that I curious about this, I don't know if I have the.... balls so to speak to actually Top him... I would have no idea were to begin... no idea what to do to him while in that scene. 

Then there are several concerns I have... I wonder if me Topping him on occasion would change the dynamic of our current relationship... so I'm asking the only place I can think to ask... do you fine in your relationship in which you both swirch for a given sence that you tend to see your partner as less of a Dom... or a sub because they switch on occasion... 

Also how do you make sure you don't end up comepeting to see who can be the better top... or bottom. 

And do you ever 'get back' at your partner for what they may have done to you while you were being the bottom... I think I would find myself thinking... 'do i really want to do this to him... what if he wants to get even at me later for it?"

Any advice on how I can go into this would be wonderful and welcome... 

I'm at the point were I would do anything for him.... even trying to top him in order to make him happy... so while he would be topping form the bottom I think I would be bottoming from the top.... i think. 

Confused~ Julia

Current Mood: confused
Tuesday, December 4th, 2007
12:59 am
[biologybabesu]
Reflections on Switching
This weekend was BR. Normally I work the entire time and NEVER get to play. So having said that this was a first! (Insert happy dance here).

I took a class - for the first time in 10 BR's (Black Rose XX). I ended up playing with one of the two presenters of that class (they are both hot, sexy, intelligent and very fun). But, I bottomed (of sorts).

Unusual you ask how? I have never bottomed in front of anyone in BR. You can imagine the chaos that cused during my DM (Dungeon Monitoring) shift! I had people I have known for years come and ask why I did that? Was I becoming a sub? What was I trying to prove? (yeah - they went there). I was no longer a "Domme" now because I bottomed, someone even said they had lost respect for me. You can only imagine my tears and frustration on Sunday. Sunday night in the dungeon was not much better - I had the wonderful chance to dress in a corset, long silk dress and get pics with my family (Fran, lisa & boy Ken) which were awsome - and then get sunrise patterns pierced into my ample bosoms. :) So joyous but again - a black lash for being less than a Domme.

So I ask this: When you first came out with your switchyness - how did people react? How did you combat the stereotype that you were less than one thing and more of a balanced human being?

For the first time I felt happy and whole -- and some people had to go and screw with it! I loved my brat scene - it was fabulous! I loved the artwork in the piercing! Nice to be the piercee instead of the piercer. I was in balance with myself, the universe and all within her.

Current Mood: in a good way
Thursday, September 6th, 2007
8:53 am
[wickedpuppy]
Hello,
 
I thought I should introduce myself. I’m WickedPuppy, and I’m a female switch. Just starting to really explore. I did a little with a past relationship, but it was lacking in the BDSM. I am currently exploring this in different ways one being my live journal and now I hope that this community will help me feel my way better.
 
 
Wp 

Current Mood: happy
Friday, August 31st, 2007
11:10 pm
[dreamweaverz]
The Power of Words
His voice is a dark velvet covering the steel of his will. It spoke of passions and pleasures I had yet to experience. It beckoned with the promise of forbidden delights and transcendent dreams.  Willingly I followed to learn more about that which suddenly had become of the utmost importance.



Current Mood: artistic
Wednesday, August 8th, 2007
10:54 am
[darkestembrace]
Reminder: BENT - Friday, August 10th (Toronto)
Registration is now open for August's BENT

Friday, August 10th, 2007 - this monthly kink party will be continuing over the summer!
Private Venue - location disclosed upon registration
9:00pm - 3:00am
Tickets are $20.00 each and include light refreshments and non-alcoholic beverages.
Re-vamped website: http://www.bentplay.com

Brief information below the cut ... for more, go to the website listed aboveCollapse )
Thursday, June 14th, 2007
4:03 am
[ulciscor]
Polite request

Hi, I've been a long time lurker of this community, mostly because I like reading, but never really had anything major to post.

I'm working to set up an online sex-toy shop, but, one of the key things in doing any shop/business etc, is making sure you have what people want, don't have what people don't want etc. Obviously I can't please all the people all the time, but I'd like to try to get some "majority opinions".
I'm trying to round up as many "willing volunteers" to answer some polls/market research type things, but I don't want to spam lots of communities with polls on a regular basis. This is an "alt" journal for me, and in a rare moment of madness, I'm going to link my alt to my main journal, because thats where I've stuck the poll.

If there's anybody out there, who can spare 5 minutes or so to go to the poll and fill it in, I'd be forever grateful. It doesn't matter if you're British, American, from elsewhere, the great thing about the internet is it brings everybody together into one amalgamated heap! :)

This is the only time I'm going to bug the community on this, bar perhaps a brief plug when the site is up and running (Mod: Would this be ok?), so if you're willing to continue answering polls for me, offering input etc, then please leave a comment on the post and I'll keep you in the loop.
The only person who can see the actual answers given is me, although obviously for vote type things the number of answers are shown, you do need to be signed in to answer it tho (much to my annoyance, I'd far rather offer it as an entirely anonymous poll).


The Poll can be found here


Friday, May 18th, 2007
4:41 pm
[siramor]
Not much going on here lately - Spring has sprung here in the U.S. midwest, what is everyone doing for switch fun these good days?

Current Mood: chipper
Saturday, April 21st, 2007
11:41 pm
[swsubbie]
Monday, April 16th, 2007
10:07 am
[xjenavivex]
good morning
is anyone from the triad area of NC?
Sunday, March 11th, 2007
4:51 pm
[xanthous_pisant]
Hi.
I just joined in hopes of meeting women in the Twin Cities area.  That's Minnesota to be exact.  I don't have much more to say at the moment.
Monday, February 19th, 2007
7:57 pm
[ruth_lawrence]
a switch munch
A well-known scene person arranged a switch 'soiree' down here a little while ago. Here in Melbourne, Austraia, few identify as switches. I suppose the same proportion, roughly, actually *are* switches as in any larger city, but this munch was a first!

Moved to the day following that originally scheduled due to a funeral of another (missed) well-known scene person, there were neverthess quite a few there.

Women were in the majority, and although we were a little subdued, the event was an hilarious ballet of intermittent domming by the women and Sheer Torment for the guys.

I guess this was to be expected :-)

I'm hoping for another next month!
Saturday, February 3rd, 2007
8:56 pm
[lesbian_luver]
FEMALES ONLY!


26 F. Very horny and eager to take-over or to please. Have tons of pics and will only talk
with other females who have pics to trade as well. NO MEN!

AOL= sckyourcunt
YIM= cnt_pleaser
MSN= sckyourcunt@hotmail.com

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